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Hot Tips To Make Him Explode With Desire For You

2:40:00 AM
By Nicole Gayle

Being an irresistible woman means being the kind of woman who responds to men in a way that tells them that you have options.

Imagine what it is like for women who get lots and lots of attention from men. These kinds of women are rated 10's by men. So when a man sees you and interacts with you, he will automatically put you in a category.
What category will you be in?

Crazies get labeled. Weirdos get labelled. Stalkers get labeled. Drama Queens get labeled. And you'd be surprised that it is actually women who consider themselves "normal" that get these negative labels from men based on how they respond.

Doing things like interrogating a man IF you didn't call you when he said he will will cause him to label you as insecure and put you in the "crazy" category.

But if a man doesn't call when he says he will then finally calls back and you act really mature about it, he'll see that as a sign that you are centered. He'll think you're reasonable because after all he has "such a busy life" and only got to the phone when he could.

Acting mature about a man's eventual phone call goes something like this - this is what a 10 will usually do:

She'll make him wait a little because she's not desperate and after all she was BUSY too with her CRAZY BUSY schedule being involved in her own life and not waiting around for a man to finally call her. Then when she returns his call, she'll act sweet and happy to hear from him. No interrogation whatsoever.

Act like a 10 and you will make him sweat!

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Keep Your Love Relationship Passionate, Alive and Growing

9:20:00 PM
By Susie and Otto Collins

When we’re asked about love relationships, one of the biggest questions is always this—“How do I keep my relationship alive, passionate and growing after all these years?”

Our answer is simple - Create a red hot love relationship.

The next question is usually—“What is a red hot love relationship and how do we create one?”

To us, a red hot love relationship is one where there’s deep love and connection, mixed with desire and passion that lasts for the entire duration of the relationship. It’s monogamous, with the two people totally committing to each other, to their growth as individuals, as well as to their growth as a couple.

A red hot love relationship is one that is built on a foundation of openness, with each person communicating honestly from the heart. It’s built on mutual trust, with the agreement that when trust is broken, it will be rebuilt as soon as possible. A red hot relationship is one in which mutual appreciation flows like water.

Most of all a red hot relationship is built on a desire and a commitment to keep passion and love alive.

So how do you create one?

Here are some tips that we can offer you…

  1. Decide what you want in a love relationship and what you want your particular red hot relationship to look like. You may feel like you just “fell” into your relationship but know that it’s never too late to start creating what you want. Take some time to find out what it is that you want.

  1. Learn some new skills and start doing the things daily that will keep your connection and your love strong—and will make it even stronger. If you want more appreciation, start appreciating your partner more.

It’s all a matter of choice and anything is possible in your life.

Know that it is possible to create a love relationship or marriage filled with all the love, passion, and connection that you would ever want—and keep it going throughout the years.

Know that a red hot love relationship that lasts is possible. We’ve been able to create it in our relationship with each other and so can you.

All you need are a few simple shifts in your thinking and some new skills and you’re all set.

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Make Your Ex Return Your Phone Calls

9:50:00 PM
By Ryan Hall

A sure shot magic trick to make your ex return your phone calls...even if they have been trying to avoid you till now.

So where did it all start for you?

I don't know about you but I'll tell you about me..I don't really know where it started...But definitely know where it ended. All I remember is the day she hit me with that dreaded "BREAKUP" word and shattered my world to pieces.

I am sure you know what I am talking about...This is the point when 3 major questions chew up one's brain.
  • Will My Ex Ever Come Back to Me?
  • Will the Pain Ever Go Away?
  • Has My Ex Found Someone Else?
So what happens next? You instantly start to PANIC... You cry every hour of the day like a baby...Stop caring about your health...Job...Friends...Family. It feels like your ex is the only medicine to your disease...You get slammed into this desperate zone where you are ready to do almost anything to get him/her back. And what do people normally do in this situation?

Don't know about people but I'll tell you what I did. I ended up calling my ex almost a zillion times each day...Trying to convince her how big of a loser I was...How screwed up I feel...How I cry 1000 times a day listening to goofy songs & thinking about her...How badly I love & want her
back...Yada Yada Yada.

Heck! I can't even tell you the rest as it is just too embarrassing when I think about it today. But did all this effort work? In one word- NOPE! In fact, the harder I tried...The more she tried to avoid me. I was convinced without a doubt that she was the one for me...I knew I will never
find anyone else as good as her.

But wait! It gets more interesting here... I got drunk one night...And called her up. This time I wasn't going to give up no matter what it took.

First I "Pleaded"
Me- Sweetie! Please come back to me...I feel so empty without you.
Her- I am not in the mood to talk...Please stop calling me!

Then I "Begged"
Me- You don't know how much I love you...I will do anything to keep you happy. Please! Come back. You were the best thing that ever happened to me. Don't leave me like this...Please! I feel so miserable without you.

Her- She Hung up! So I called her up again... Then I "Harassed"

Me- If you won't come back I'll tell all your friends all the nasty things you used to say about them behind their backs. And I am going to do it right now!

Her- You are such a jerk! See this is why I left you. Do what you want. I don't care
anymore.
Me (Now back in the desperate state) - Oh Please...I am sorry...I didn't mean to. Please...Don't hang up.
Her- She hangs up...

I don't think I can tell you the rest of the story...But I guess you get what I am tying to convey here. No amount of convincing, pleading, begging, harassing would work. But this is the most common mistake most people make on a constant basis.

Now let's get to the exciting part....
With constant trial and error I came across this extremely effective trick to get your ex to return your phone calls.

We are going to use a bit of psychological trickery to get the job done here... Before we get to the trick let's first understand why it's going to work. Humans are driven by emotions and in order to make your ex return your phone calls you would have to evoke all the right emotions in them to get the desired response.

So what kind of emotions are we looking for here?
  1. Desire- You must say something which would raise your ex's level of desire which means they would develop a sense of eagerness to talk to you again.
  2. Curiosity- Once they have the desire...Next they will need to get highly curious regarding what you have to tell them which would compel them to talk to you.
  3. Excitement- Excitement is known to be one of the most powerful human emotions and if you can get your ex excited, half your job would be done right there.
  4. Action- This is where you will get your ex to act...Which I'll explain in a bit.
So our concept is simple here-
  • Desire> Curiosity> Excitement> Action.
Now let me show you the trick which works freakishly well every single time. In order to use this trick effectively you must ensure that you call your ex when their answering machine or voicemail is on. Call them up when you feel their answering machine or voicemail would be on
and say the following-
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Hey! It's me...Just wanted to tell you that you were right about many things in the past which I have realized today...Something real exciting happened recently and I couldn't wait to tell you...Guess that's why I called. You really got to know this...I don't know when you will hear this but let me tell you anyway...Now listen...A few days ago I waa........
And HANG UP!
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So what happens next?

You have triggered desire, curiosity, excitement in your ex's mind with the above mentioned message and he/she will take action by giving you a call back whenever he/she listens to it.

This is how it would help you-
  1. You created desire by telling them that something exciting happened...Now they are eager to know.
  2. You triggered their curiosity because you told them a bit and now they are curios to know the rest. They know that something exciting happened but what exactly was it? This will keep them curious to know more.
  3. By only telling them half the story you have planted the seed of excitement in their mind where he/she is excited to know more.
  4. And finally, your ex will take action by calling you back to know the rest of the story...Which was your main purpose anyway.
But wait? Now you might be thinking...What next? Getting them to call me back does not really mean that I have them back in my life? Well I have a solution for that too...What If I give you a step-by-step formula...That will make your ex crawl back to you even if your situation seems
utterly hopeless?

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Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series

8:54:00 PM

To have outrageous success with women, you'll need to speak their language. But it takes the right material to educate you on such a cryptic matter.

After you've deciphered the inner workings of the female mind, you'll totally light up her attraction circuitry right under her radar. You can get the know-how on attraction at :

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It's a given in the dating scene that women naturally align themselves with guys who occupy a higher place on the proverbial food chain. These guys are typically referred to as the ALPHA MALES.

As you probably know, they lord over other men and just smack of social value, which is like Kryptonite to an AFC. The PUA on the other hand has it running through his veins.

This type of man is looked up to by many, and all the women in the immediate area are irresistibly drawn to him. What's ironic is that your veritable "top dog" doesn't necessarily have the looks of a celebrity, the body of a weightlifter, or the wealth of a CEO.

In fact, lots of materially and politically potent men don't have the slightest clue to generating genuine and lasting attraction. Women might think they'll fall for a good -looking guy, but keeping her around takes MORE than that.

Let's go over some of the things that will make you more than just an insignificant blip in a woman's consciousness:

Talking the talk

Your voice is a powerful tool you can use to make women putty in your hands. Think about it - a well-modulated manner of speaking is absolute dynamite to women.

While not of all of us are gifted with a deep set of vocal cords, you can still pull this off. You just have to avoid making some key mistakes that could undo your game.

It's a common tendency to speak in a wimpy, high-pitched voice when we're nervous or flustered. As a result, you'll sound girly, and lack confidence.

MAJOR TURN-OFF!

Don't let your voice betray your nervousness. Practice with the way you talk so you don't give away that you're not as collected as you seem.

Here's a suggestion : get accustomed to controlling your voice through some daily exercises you can repeat several times. Stop pulling your voice out of your throat; instead, make it register deep down in your gut.

Pushing your voice out from the abdominal area adds power. But don't try speaking in this manner right off the bat. Do some humming or even singing exercises so that the sound you produce comes from your diaphragm.

Get used to speaking properly all the time until you're no longer "faking it". As such, having a pleasant voice will become a natural part of your personality. Ultimately, you'll feel more confident in the fact that your deep, evenly paced and masculine voice will greatly affect someone's reactions, specifically with the ladies.

Walking The Walk

Of course, your voice should also match the way you move. Body language is a huge, make-or-break factor that will INSTANTLY tell a woman what kind of guy you are.

Is an alpha male fidgety? Does nervous energy manifest strong leadership qualities?

Definitely NOT. A high-value guy sets himself apart by using his body to express his winning attitude.

He's relaxed and at ease, but never leans into anyone's active space. In the same way, a PUA would automatically blow his approach if he ever leaned into a woman's "territorial bubble" because that signifies that he's out to impress her. That's not how an alpha male rolls.

Think about how it looks from her perspective. You're waiting for what she has to say, and your voice is too weak that you have to lean towards her just to be heard. That's hardly the mark of a high-value male.

If anything, you should stand with your feet at shoulder length apart. Not too wide that you look overly cocky, but not too close that you seem sorry for the space you're occupying.

As our mothers, teachers and countless figures of authority have told us in the past, slouching is for losers. A weak, rounded posture will cause "WIMP" to be written all over you.

Also, make large, sweeping movements that appear natural, as opposed to quick gestures that make it look like you're living in a stop-motion animation TV show (watch "Gumby" to see what I mean).

This also applies to the way you walk, which should be SMOOTH and evenly paced. Let your arms swing slightly, and don't allow them to flail around.


Alpha Male Stylin' 101

Hygiene and fashion form another important aspect of maintaining your social value. Essentially, what women want is a guy who's MATURE enough to groom and dress like a confident man.

Self-respecting women won't bother wasting any time with a man who doesn't pay attention to DETAILS. For example, if you had poorly managed teeth or reeked of body odor, do you think she'll want to know what the rest of you is like?

Don't think that any guy is the exception to good grooming and dressing sensibly. No man is going to land a real relationship if he places himself above this simple dating prerequisite.

Even if you're interesting, witty, and have a great sense of humor, a woman can't appreciate all of that under a nasty exterior of unkempt and unwashed hair, or if you dress like a post-apocalyptic refugee.

The overall way you present yourself is what matters here. Don't let a horrid sense of hygiene and style get in the way of meeting the dolled-up, sweet smelling women that attract you.

It's only fair that you meet them halfway. It's not like you'd be interested to go out with someone who was too lazy to brush her teeth, shower or shave her legs, am I right?

So make it a habit to be always meticulously CLEAN. If you ever want a beautiful woman to snuggle up against your body, you're gonna have to make that EFFORT.

Here's a basic, top-to-toe list of things to watch out for :

- Consult with a reputable stylist on which hairstyle suits you in terms of age and body frame. He/she will be able to figure out if you're better off growing out your hair, or if the clean-cut look is more appropriate.

- A dentist can clean your teeth and advise you on best dental practices to keep your smile looking bright. Also, don't forget to brush after every meal, floss often and use mouthwash.

- Moisturize on a daily basis. I understand that there are many guys out there that think moisturizing is the first step on a slippery slope to femininity, but trust me, women like guys that look after their skin. If you are around the same age as her, it pays to look like her boyfriend rather than her father. A guy that looks after his assets is one that is going to continue to look good as he gets older, rather than looking worn down and weather-beaten.

- Bathe once or twice a day at the very least. There's no excuse for smelling bad, so pay attention to the areas that need adequate washing. Use a good deodorant, and if necessary, keep a spray deodorant in your car or work bag for times when you need a little freshen up. Like I said, a woman won't be enticed to get in close proximity with someone who doesn't smell good.

- Get a friend to give you an unbiased opinion on the kind of clothes that will suit your body type. Have him or her check out the stuff in your closet to figure out which clothes you can keep in active duty or retire permanently. If that's not an option, drop by a decent clothing store and have the staff guide you on which shirts, belts, pants and shoes will match you. A few basics that you can mix and match will set your wardrobe up really well, and enable you to mix new pieces with some of the older stuff you have saved. It may set you back a few hundred bucks, but you'll thank yourself for doing it later on.

- Lastly, get off your ass and get some exercise. You don't have to look like Dr. Manhattan from "Watchmen", but you should at least show the world you're making an effort to maintain your body and keep fit. Knowing that you're taking care of yourself can greatly boost your self-confidence, lift your spirits, and help keep things in place. Not only will you look good, you will feel good! While fitness clubs are ok, try signing up for places that are fairly populated. Not only will you keep fit, you can also enhance your social skills by interacting with the fellow patrons (which include women, of course!).


So there you have it. In essence, putting an attractive man together is all about walking and talking like an alpha male.

...as well as dressing and grooming yourself in a way that naturally elicits RESPECT from others.

You'll definitely look at yourself differently, and the women around you will follow suit and take you seriously.

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What To Do With A Sexless Marriage

6:22:00 PM
By Cucan Pemo

What can you do to deal with a sexless marriage? First, is your marriage sexless because of the lack of passion or because of a terrible condition; either way you can still salvage your marriage and still happy. First of all, sex is not everything in a marriage. In fact, most religions believe that you should only engage in sex to conceive. Any other time, it's considered a sin. Now today, we have wrapped sex with a string of love. Many people think that if you don't have sex then there is no love. However, sex has nothing to do with love, passion, but not love. Sex is something that we engage in when we find ourselves attracted to another.

Remember how it felt when you were first married? You had such an explosion of passion that you just couldn't help it, but want your mate. However, people change, things change, and so does a marriage. Just because you are in a slum, doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Right now, she may feel overwhelmed with the kids, work, and so on. It may have something to do with you too.

When it comes to you as the reason for the sexless marriage it might just be because you have not given her a reason to feel passion for you. You might not look at her like you use to. When it comes woman feeling attractive it's all about how you make them feel. You need to look at her every now and then and actually see her. Surely it might just be your own depression or career that has blocked you have paying such attention.

However, if you bring home flowers or dinner and give her a hug and a kiss, you may just startle the passion that she has for you. She'll feel appreciated and loved. Love is another thing. Do you talk to your wife about love? Do you tell her that you still love her? Be romantic! Tell her that you love her, let her know that you still feel the same. Go out of your way for her and she'll go out of her way for you. Soon you'll notice that the sex is back and you'll both feel better about the marriage and the future of the relationship.

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Then again, have you lost your passion for her? It's hard to hold passion for someone over years of time. If you are just not attracted to her, you at least have to try to deal with the problem. Try the romance and ask her about how she feels. Ask her to do some of the things that you need her to do to make you feel the passion again. If you begin to see a third party about your marriage then you will be able to get to the deep feelings that you both hide.

You will be able to overcome both of your insecurities and build a stronger marriage. Just because you have a lack of sex or a dry spell doesn't mean that you should give up on your marriage. If you can talk to your wife about these things and about your intimate relationship, then you should be able to over come the spell, however, sometimes it is not a choice that the couple makes, but the doctor.

There are a lot of couples who cannot have sex because it is too painful or it is a medical condition like cancer. Your wife won't feel beautiful when she's sick and sometimes they can't bare the thought. When it comes to dealing with a marriage that is sexless by choice, you should try to think about why you married your wife. You didn't marry her because of the sex; you most likely, married her because you had such a connection. You felt like you wanted to spend the rest of your life with this woman. Now that she's sick, you have to be there by her side through it.

Sex should be the last thing on your mind and if you truly love her then it really won't matter. In fact, even if you aren't in this type of situation, you should not care about the sex. All that you can do is go to your wife and talk to her and tell her you love her more than ever. You may not be able to add sex to your marriage, but you will feel so better.

Some couples have a choice between having sex and not having sex, and then some couples don't. Regardless, you need to show your support to your wife and talk about your feelings about the sexless marriage and about your marriage in general. Open up and you will end up finding that you will feel better about your marriage and yourself.

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The Secret To Meeting More Women

5:53:00 PM
By: Thundercat ArtOfApproaching.com

Has this ever happened to you?

You go out with some buddies for a night on the town, hoping to meet a girl to have some fun with. You head to a bar, get a booth, and order drinks. The place is kickin', and you and your buddies are having a good time looking at all the pretty girls... except nobody is meeting any them. You want to talk to them, but you feel
more comfortable sitting around with your friends talking about how you would like to go home with a girl that night. Instead, you all end up leaving the same way you came in - together.

This is a pretty common occurrence among the lovelorn bachelor.
This is a symptom of what I like to call the "comfort zone."

Basically, everyone has a comfort zone. This is a state of mind where people are surrounded by that which is FAMILIAR. Familiarity breeds complacency, which can keep you from taking the action necessary to achieve your goals, because that action introduces uncertainty into your life - something the comfort zone likes to keep at bay.

So when you want to meet a woman, you need to know how to break out of this comfort zone.

How do you do this?

The answer is self-evident: You must learn to meet women BY YOURSELF!

Friends can be a great asset, but most of the time, going out with friends actually HINDERS your ability to meet women. Not just because of the comfort zone factor, but because other guys who don't know what they're doing with girls can actually ruin the
interactions you have with them - be it by jealousy or ineptitude. So the best way to counter this is to LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS BEHIND.

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But the prospect of going out by oneself can strike fear into the hearts of men. After all, doesn't going out by yourself signal to everyone that you're a loser with no friends? Doesn't it make you look creepy?

The answer to both these questions is:

NO!!!!!

The simple act of going out on your own can shake your comfort zone, because you have no anchors to keep you there. Often your friends will act as an anchor to your comfort zone that keep you from approaching women. And it is easier to break out of this comfort zone without those anchors present. Plus, you don't have
to worry about failing with women and being judged by your friends if they're not around.

But the most powerful thing about going out by yourself is that it puts your focus on what you are doing. This means that every interaction you have is without distraction, so it is more easily examined and the problems you had are more easily identified. This allows you to spot your sticking points more quickly and correct
them.

Not only that, but being out by yourself gives you the freedom of flexibility when it comes to where you're going and who you talk to. If you're bored with a place, you can leave and go to another one. If you want to talk to a girl who your friends might poke fun at you for, you can. Not only this, but you're free to mess up the
interactions you have, because chances are, no one there will ever see you again, so you don't have to worry about what others think
of you.



But like all things, knowing what to say will help you to go out by yourself and succeed at increasing your ability to approach. There are many examples of Openers to say in my book The Art of Attraction, but some guys will need to know how to handle the inevitable question "Where are your friends?"

Something I've used to great effect is the answer "Oh, they're around." This simple dismissive statement not only answers the question, but as far as anyone knows, you're telling the truth.

But if you want to take it a step further, I've even used this as an Opener at times I've been out by myself.

The "My Friends Ditched Me" Opener

This works good whenever you're out somewhere by yourself. Basically, you approach your target or a group, and say:

"Hey guys, you won't believe this. All week, me and my friends have been planning on going out and having a good time, because we've all been busy and we wanted to blow off some steam. So we made plans to go out tonight, right? Well, one by one they call me up and say stuff like "I'm too tired," or "My girlfriend wants to
watch a movie," and stuff like that. Some friends huh? Bunch of lame-o's. But I'm thinking there might be something more to this, because last week two of my friends had a knock-down drag out fight over some girl they both like, so the situation is all weird. Do you guys have any friends who got split up by someone they both
liked?"

Using this, you set the stage that you're out by yourself because, well, unlike your friends, YOU'RE not lame! Not only that, you throw in a nice Drama Opener in there to engage the group.


And if you're still too shy to go out by yourself, then try this little trick:

When you go out with your friends -- DITCH THEM. Go off on your own and leave them behind for a while, then meet up with them later. This can be quite an effective method if your friends don't
mind you leaving!

If you don't know what a Drama Opener is, check it out in my book The Art of Approaching. It's got TONS of openers and other things to say so that you never have to worry about how you're going to meet women again. If you're one of those guys who gets tounge-tied around beautiful girls, or if your mind likes to "blank" out on
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3 Criticals Error When Talking To Women Online

11:47:00 PM
By Derek Lamont
Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author
www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com

So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on Facebook…

And there she is.

The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say something really generic like…

“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”

Or…

“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”

Or…

“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should hit me back!”

I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near 1% if you’re lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice profile…

So what’s the magic formula?

Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.

Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!

What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses in your profile content.

Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can you say creep?
What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking, you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.

The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical. There are too many cut and paste messages out there.
An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely not.

You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…

Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn much!

Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL! How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?

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How to Instantly Spark A Woman's Attraction For You

9:17:00 PM
By Simon Heong

Have you ever noticed this?

Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right?

You will then notice, if she's really a 'hot' one, the guy will not only want to attract her attention, but he'll also want to try to impress her in whatever way he can.

He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing it, he won't he will do the obvious.

He'll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's with her.

Notice that some guys will even have their own lil' 'interview' thing going on in their head.

They'll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they'll be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. "how old are you," "where are you from", "what do you like doing in your free time," "how's is your mom doing," "how's your dad doing?"...

Know what I'm talking about?

They'll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking that this will actually keep the conversation going but honestly, don't you think an attractive woman gets asked the same 'ol questions all the time?

Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy who's there for her all the time, who does all the sweet things for her, buying her gifts and doing all those stuff that your parents normally teaches their kids on dating.

Now, don't you think that 90% of guys do the exact same thing all the time?

You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that you're being needy and insecure. Why do I say needy?

'Needy' because it gives her the impression that you need to do certain things; you need to practically 'work' your way to impress her.

It also projects a sign of weakness in your part. That you're just insecure about yourself.

Trust me, doing so will seem way too 'normal' for them. They won't stick around when they sense this.

And women are extremely good in their intuition. I can't really explain why. Nor can they. But it's just something that they can just feel.

So, whats the best way to spark the attraction with women then?

Simple. Do the UNEXPECTED. Do the unpredictable that catches their attention.

For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a lack of interest in the girl whether or not she's there.

You see, I'm here telling you that it's perfectly OK to have relaxed moments of silences when you're with the girl.

It's ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times what you should in fact do is to project a very laid back, relaxed, and confident air about yourself when you're with her.

You must project to her that you're really comfortable with your own self first and not just looking to pick up someone, and to impress someone.

You have to show it to her that you don't need to impress her. She'll have to be the one to do the impressing.

Think of it this way, if she's a real attractive woman, she probably gets 'hit on' at least 3-5 times a day -- EVERYDAY.

I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the same pathetic way and will try to impress like the rest of the pack.

She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has become used to having guys hit on her.

Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if you're not intimidated by her beauty, and you just act as if you're not one bit interested in her...

... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence at times. Imagine how things have changed now?

When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you don't. Don't you think she'll even take a little notice of then?

Think about this. It's some powerful stuff.

About the Author : Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "28 SureFire Ways To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook - The Net's FIRST ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and strategies.
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Sex Techniques For Men

8:55:00 AM
By Cucan Pemo

Most women think that when a man has sex he is only looking to please himself. However this is not the case. They want to satisfy their partner so that they can be sure they are the great lover they believe they are. This is very important. It is also important that a man keep their partner satisfied so that they can be sure they are in a committed sexual relationship with no worries of the partner leaving for other sexual relationships.

Must Know about Sex

There are some things that men need to know about sex before they even attempt to please their partner. They must know that it is not always about them. They have to be willing to do what the other person wants from time to time so that their partner can get their sexual pleasure as well. This is very important so that each person can be satisfied with his or her experience.

Rising to the Sex Challenge

Men are always being criticized no matter what they are doing. They are always being rated and the same goes for the sexual performance that they give. Women are very critical of their sexual pleasure and if they are not getting what they want from the total package that they have, chances are they will speak up about it or they will go somewhere else for their fun. This is not something that a man wants to hear and in fact a man can be very damaged by this challenge.

Very important sex techniques for men to know

The first thing that a man should know about pleasing a woman during sex is that they are not always in control. They may want to just have a quickie, but that may not be good enough for the other person involved. A man should know that sometimes just having sex with their partner is not enough. They have to go to greater distances so that they can please their partner and make them have the best sexual experience possible.

Second, a woman is harder to bring to orgasm than a man. It may take some extra time and work on a woman to get them to sexual pleasure. It may be necessary for a man to do a little extra curricular activity to bring the woman in their life to the fullest sexual orgasm that they can have. It may be necessary to bring other methods into your lovemaking act so that you can bring the woman to the best sexual place that she can be.

Many times a man may have to do more work than what they thought to make their partner happy. They will have to use their imagination to make their woman feel totally satisfied. Sometimes a woman may expect a man to use his fingers or even his tongue to make her have the best orgasm ever. Or she may even prefer to masturbate while you watch. This is something that can turn both people on during sex.

Third, you have to be willing to connect to the woman. Many times a woman needs to feel that connection with the man that she is making love with. This is something that may or may not be difficult for you to do. You may want to talk before having sex to make sure that she knows what your intentions are. If you are not looking for a committed relationship and you only want a gratifying sexual experience, you need to be upfront with her about this.

Having sex more than just one time a day!

The fourth thing that men need to know is that they should have sex more than just one time a day. When you are young, you can do just that! As you find that you are aging, you may have to fight off things that can ruin your erection. You may want to keep your sexual side a little on the wild side so that you can keep on performing the way that you are expected so that you are giving your woman the fullest pleasure that she is demands from you.

The fifth thing that men should know about their sexual technique is that they may have to do a little bit of masturbation before they have sex. This will help you keep your erection longer during the act so that you are fulfilling your partner’s needs and wants. This is the best thing that you can do for your partner and even for yourself so that you both have the best possible sexual pleasure.

The number six killer sexual technique, is talking. Many women love to be held and spoken gently do before, during, and after sex. These are very important times during the sexual experience. You want to speak to her with great love and comfort. You need to make her feel that she is the only person that you are thinking about right now and you need to make her completely comfortable with the entire experience that she is in.

Get to reading and watching!

The seventh thing that you need to know about sexual techniques is that you need to make sure that you have all the knowledge that you need. You should take the time to read and watch many great movies about sex. There is nothing wrong with doing your homework on this subject. You have to have all the power and knowledge that you can so that you are making the right choices for you and of course for your partner.

You may want to rent a porno from time to time to see exactly what does happen in some cases. This is a great way to get information and to also see the techniques that some men do first hand. You can watch the porno with your partner and you will find that this is a great way to get in the mood for you both.

When you are using the best sex techniques and are not afraid of doing a little extra work or even a few things that are not usual for you, you will see that you can have a better total experience and keep your libido where you want it to be.

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The Role of Secrecy in Romance Scams

5:20:00 AM
By Alan Prince

The menace of romance scams again re-echoed recently at the media -hyped trial of the wife of a clergyman who allegedly murdered her husband.

She apparently had cashed some fraudulent checks sent to her by a fraud syndicate working from Nigeria and Canada.

She seemed to have sent some money to the fraudsters, and was said to have tried to cover up the fraud with the bank officials.

It was during an argument with her husband, a minister in the Methodist church, over this expense that she allegedly shot him.

This story should tell anyone who cares to listen one home truth-that romance scams and other related crimes are very real, and they are affecting the lives of many more people than was previously thought, both in the United States and elsewhere.

While very few of such cases will ever hit the National limelight and be as sensational as the one described above, the reality is that many people are being harmed by romance scams than was previously thought.

One of the major factors that make people to succumb to these scams so easily is secrecy.
The tendency among those who are involved in online dating is to keep details about their dates a secret to themselves.

From all I have seen, heard and read, many people who have fallen for the scams kept the knowledge of the relationship away from anyone, including those who should know about it.
And when a close person to them either got to know somehow, or got a hint as to what was going on, they literally got mad with them.

Some scam victim's keep on dating the guy or girl for months, keeping everything about him or her secret.

The scammers seem to encourage this sort of thing too.

With time, when the scammers have worked hard to gain the trust and confidence of their potential target, then the fraudulent checks, money orders, credit cards and other fraudulent items involved in the scam begin to arrive.

The warning signals are always there quite alright, but by this time, the victim is far too much in love with the scammer to ever believe that they could be wrong.

The next thing that happens is the scam proper, in which the victim loses hundreds or thousands of dollars.

If you are involved with dating online, then it could be very helpful to let one or two close people into your life, and let them know what is going on.

That way, if things go wrong or they appear to be, you know you have one or two people who can help put you on the right track.

Many victims I talked with in the course of my research expressed their regrets that they did not have anyone to watch out for them when they were being scammed.

They pointed out that if they had been more open, and confided in someone they trusted, they would have been spared the much pain and agony that followed the romance scams.

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Spending Enough Time For A Good Marriage

4:01:00 PM
By Larry Bilotta, founder of Fulfilled Couple's Marriage 101 program. 

Let's face it. We all live busy lives. And sometimes, the easiest thing to do is come home and plop yourself right in front of the TV. While you may not have time to get everything done in a day, are you devoting enough time to your marriage? How much time should couples spend together for a happy marriage? 

Let me ask you...do you know how many hours a day you SHOULD be spending on your marriage? 

A happy, healthy marriage requires that time is spent WITH each other, ON each other and FOR each other. Unfortunately, most couples forget this and focus on other things they consider (at the time) to be a "priority". 

So just what are some of the demands are married couples faced with? 

• Planning and attending the children’s events 

• Taking care of pets and day-to-day household chores 

• Spending time with extended family and friends 

Add to this the fact that some couples are faced with serious "road blocks" that put a great deal of pressure on their marriage such as dealing with a serious illness in the family or an affair. 

In order to put each spouse’s time into perspective, let’s take a look at what they do during a typical 168 hour week: 

Activity Time Spent Time remaining in the week 

Sleep: 8 hrs/day | 56 hrs/week - *112 hr remaining 

Job/Travel: 9 hrs/day | 45 hrs/week - *67 hrs remaining 

Eating & Prep: 2 hrs/day | 14 hrs/week - *53 hr remaining 

Kids issues & events: 3 hrs/day | 21 hrs/week - *32 hr remaining 

Household maintenance: 1 hrs/day | 7 hrs/week - *25 hr remaining 

Phone conversations: 1.5 hrs/day | 10.5 hrs/week - *14.5 hr remaining 

Friends/Social life: 1.5 hrs/day | 10.5 hrs/ week - *4 hr remaining 

And where do those last 4 hours go? 

According to the A.C. Nielsen Co., the average American watches more than four hours of TV each day (28 hours per week / two months of non-stop TV-watching per year). Let’s not focus on the idea that in a 65-year lifetime, a person will have spent nine years in front of a TV! 

So, ask yourself: Do you have enough time for a good marriage? 

It’s a fact that no relationship is as intense, demanding or as fulfilling as a marriage can be. It is the toughest, yet most rewarding relationship you can have with another person. So WHY then do we choose to make EVERYTHING ELSE our top priority while we leave only 4 measly hours a week devote to our marriage? 

Now think about this because I guarantee you haven't before. Does anyone actually care about the health of YOUR relationship, your connection with each other and your marriage? In this society, marriage is the goose that lays the golden eggs and my point is no one really cares about the goose. 

Let me prove my point that your marriage is the goose and everyone wants your "golden eggs". Your children don't care about your marriage…until mom and dad are in big trouble and can't stop fighting. 

Both sets of your parents don't care about YOUR marriage. In reality they care about their own son or daughter in the marriage, not the marriage itself. 

Friends don't care about YOUR marriage. They are polite to you as a couple, but really care about you as individuals…the person they knew BEFORE the wedding. 

It’s rare for churches - synagogues to care for your marriage. For most, it’s just not on their radar. Many have no preventative maintenance program for married couples to keep them from falling into disrepair. 

When it comes to assets, the goose of your marriage has got the goods. Marriage makes the two of you more stable and financially successful because of your union. Together you produce the golden eggs that build a strong Nation. 

When a marriage falls apart, friends, relatives, coworkers, and even religious organization don't know what to tell you because very few people understand what it takes to create a successful marriage and even FEWER people know why marriages fall apart. 

With this background in mind, it’s easy to see how the two of you will be influenced to put your priorities where everyone says your priorities should be…ON THEM! This is the reason your time, (one of the goose’s major assets) is freely given away to everyone else and only 4 hours a week is left for the male and female halves of the goose, to take care of itself. 

If no one cares about the health of your marriage who will care enough to keep your marriage together if the two of you don't even know how? 

The answer is NO ONE…because no one cares about the goose. And this brings me to my conclusion that… "Only a HEALTHY Goose Can Lay Golden Eggs". 

Hopefully you can now see that your marriage is the goose that lays the golden eggs. Together, you create secure and successful children that will shape our future and the future of our Grandchildren. 

It is as husband and wife that the two of you contribute to a strong society. 

So how do you take care of the goose, how to you keep your marriage strong? You must talk to each other to strengthen the goose. Talk…as in CONVERSATION, not just in passing. 

Talking, sharing ideas and listening to each other takes time and 4 hours a week is the absolute MINIMUM amount of time that you should spend doing this activity. 

Talk openly and be sure not to criticize each other while you are talking. This will add depth to your relationship and keep your marriage strong. Probably the most well worn piece of marriage advice is to plan a "date night" on a regular basis. 

You plan that date and suddenly the world of demanders comes and tries to steal even that little time from the goose. Don’t let it happen. Take a closer look at all the time restraints on your marriage that you would normally use to serve the needs of others and remember that Only a Healthy Goose Lays Golden Eggs, and improving your marriage takes time. It will not happen overnight. 

You need to be in a good state of mind when the two of you face the unexpected and uninvited troubles of life that might take the form of bankruptcy, a sick child, or various kinds of addictions that could affect either of you. 
If collectively, you are not a "healthy goose", those troubles can rip the goose apart and one-million five hundred thousand divorces a year prove it. In times of trouble, you must talk to each other MORE, not less. To talk, you need to feel safe with each other. To feel safe, both of you need to really listen to each other without judgment. 

Give your marriage the time and the world will continue to thank you for your golden eggs. 

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